Zen TALK

Zen is the art of connecting oneself with the nature. It focuses on awareness through the practice of meditation. Meditation can give you a sense of calm, peace and balance that can benefit both your emotional well-being and your overall health. It gives more energy, more concentration, more peace, more love, more joy, more presence, more kindness.

What is Zen?

Zen is a state of mind which leave stress behind and focus on beautiful things that help us relax and feel good about ourselves. “Being Zen” is essentially a state of being at peace with your own thoughts, and being self-aware of your place within the universe, inconsequential (and simultaneously essential).

The term “Zen” is a long-standing form of traditional wisdom, which has had an impact on billions of people all over the world. Before we can understand what “Zen” actually means, we should look at the history of this enigmatic idea. The word Zen is derived from the Chinese word Ch’an, which is directly taken from Indian sanskrit word dhayana, which means meditation. It centers on a personal relationship with your own mind, and a higher, undefined entity outside of yourself.

How is Zen Practiced?

1) Mindful Wakeup: Start with a Purpose

This is the best practice to do in the morning, before checking phones or email.

1. On waking, sit in your bed or a chair in a relaxed posture. Close your eyes and connect with the sensations of your body. Make sure your spine is straight, but not rigid.

2. Take three long, deep, nourishing breaths—breathing in through your nose and out through your mouth. Then let your breath settle into its own rhythm, as you simply follow it in and out, noticing the rise and fall of your chest and belly as you breathe.

3. Ask yourself: “What is my intention for today?” Use these prompts to help answer that question, as you think about the people and activities you will face. Ask yourself:

How might I show up today to have the best impact?

What quality of mind do I want to strengthen and develop?

What do I need to take better care of myself?

During difficult moments, how might I be more compassionate to others and myself?

How might I feel more connected and fulfilled?

Setting an intention—keeping those primal motivations in mind—helps strengthen this connection between the lower and higher centers. Doing so can change your day, making it more likely that your words, actions and responses— especially during moments of difficulty—will be more mindful and compassionate.

4. Set your intention for the day. For example, “Today, I will be kind to myself; be patient with others; give generously; stay grounded; persevere; have fun; eat well,” or anything else you feel is important.

5. Throughout the day, check in with yourself. Pause, take a breath, and revisit your intention. Notice, as you become more and more conscious of your intentions for each day, how the quality of your communications, relationships, and mood shifts.

2) Mindful Eating: Enjoy Every Mouthful

  • Come to the table with an appetite— but not when ravenously hungry. If you skip meals, you may be so eager to get anything in your stomach that your first priority is filling the void instead of enjoying your food.
  •  Start with a small portion. It may be helpful to limit the size of your plate to nine inches or less.
  • Appreciate your food. Pause for a minute or two before you begin eating to contemplate everything and everyone it took to bring the meal to your table. Silently express your gratitude for the opportunity to enjoy delicious food and the companions you’re enjoying it with.
  • Bring all your senses to the meal. When you’re cooking, serving, and eating your food, be attentive to color, texture, aroma, and even the sounds different foods make as you prepare them. As you chew your food, try identifying all the ingredients, especially seasonings.
  • Take small bites. It’s easier to taste food completely when your mouth isn’t full. Put down your utensil between bites.
  • Chew thoroughly. Chew well until you can taste the essence of the food. (You may have to chew each mouthful 20 to 40 times, depending on the food.) You may be surprised at all the flavors that are released.
  • Eat slowly. If you follow the advice above, you won’t bolt your food down. Devote at least five minutes to mindful eating before you chat with your tablemates.

3) Mindful Pause: Rewire Your Brain

The Power of Pause

We are starving for stillness and silence in our culture. Doesn’t it seem like there is noise and chaos everywhere? The truth is that the world is not going to slow down and get less noisy simply because you want it to. You have to commit to taking time to pause. I’ve grown to appreciate that pausing truly is golden. Taking breaks settle me in a matter of minutes. I didn’t always feel this way. I used to surround myself with noise. I’d fall asleep with the television blaring, have pop music playing in my car and home, and talk, talk, talk until my throat was sore. Now I seek silence every day and I encourage you to do the same.

You should not react to all the events in your life, rather stop for some time and think about the situation, before responding to it. Mindful pause exercise stresses the importance of taking a moment to stop what you are doing so you can check how you are feeling & become more focused.

4) Mindful Workout: Activate Your Mind and Your Muscles

If you’ve ever laced up your running shoes and covered a few kilometers in the great outdoors, you’ll likely understand the simple joys a good run can bring: the feeling of fresh air in the lungs, appreciating the beauty of nature, perhaps even finding that elusive flow state.

Being mindful involves paying attention to our breath and physical sensations, as well as how our emotions and thought processes are responding. For runners, this means they concentrate on the physical sensations that they are in control of. This includes their breath, but also their posture, gait, where they look or focus while running, and their overall form.

When we run, it can be easy to become overwhelmed with the pace you’re going at, how far you’ve run and how far you might still have to go. Mindfulness helps runners to keep the focus on the exact moment they’re in and bring their attention to the moment at hand.

  • Release yourself from external distractions and daily pressures.
  • Really listen to your body: your breathing, your postures, and your senses.
  • Use your breath to aid you. Mouth breathing is related to stress responses, so try to focus more on breathing through your nose.
  • Connect with memories associated with your body, past injuries or experiences relating to running. This can help you create deeper internal connections.
  • Keep the internal conversation between you and your body, not societal expectations.
  • Don’t worry about anchor points, timings, tracking devices – just listen to your body.

5) Mindful Driving: Drive Yourself Calm, Not Crazy

Mindful driving is an application of mindfulness outside of a closed/controlled environment, with the goal of being present in each moment, fully attuned and immersed in the flow of action while maintaining a sense of calm observation.

It takes practice, but as you do this you are training the mind to be present. When your mind controls you, it is very stressful; but when you are able to control your mind, it can be very relaxingA mindful commute will help you become more focused, relaxed, and effective once you get to your destination.

It sounds so obvious and, in many ways, may well feel like a boring legal disclaimer, but it’s not; it’s much more than that.

When we drive a car we need to be 100% present with what we are doing and not thinking about anything else, not even a mindfulness exercise. I’m pretty sure most people can think of times when they have gone several miles or more in the car and then suddenly realized they were lost in thought. It almost feels as though we have just woken up. Funnily enough, that’s how we spend a lot of our life, we just tend to notice it a bit more when we are confronted with the potential dangers of driving a car under the influence of a wandering mind.

The goal of mindfulness is to wake up to the inner workings of our mental, emotional, and physical processes.

Self-manifestation!

Selfmanifestation allows you to trust that the universe will provide exactly what you need at exactly the right moment. It allows you to trust the universe more deeply and it, therefore, furthers manifestation more than making a Wishlist of all the things you want.

How to manifest the desires of your higher self ?

Believe in yourself
Even if you don’t, pretend that you do and at some point you will

Create an action plan In manifestation, it is important that you develop a plan of action.

If you are not clear about what you want to do and what you want to achieve, you are setting yourself up for failure.

Planning a new initiative? Start by defining where you are and where you want to be. 

Solving a problem? Analyze the situation and explore possible solutions before prioritizing them. 

Then write down your goal. And before you move on to the next step, run your goal through the SMART criteria. Or in other words, make sure that it is 

  • Specific – well-defined and clear
  • Measurable – include measurable indicators to track progress  
  • Attainable – realistic and achievable within the resources, time, money, experience, etc. you have
  • Relevant – align with your other goals 
  • Timely – has a finishing date 

Use this SMART goals idea to simplify this process. Share it with others to get their input as well.

Take action

Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.

You need to focus only on the first step here. Complete it, and then move on to the next. Slowly, checkpoint after checkpoint, everything will begin to unfold beautifully.

Here are 5 things you can start in your daily routine, to help initiate action in the direction of turning your imagination into something manifested.

  • Write down your goals, both long and short-term.
  • Practice breathing and meditation.
  • Stay physically active, move your body.
  • Tell yourself, everyone you know, and even strangers, what it is that you intend to accomplish.
  • Keep a gratitude journal, and write in it daily.
  • Use these steps to garner momentum. Carry your new base of knowledge, and power, with you as you charge forward into whatever life has to offer next

Focus on the positive

Positive vibrations attract positive vibrations.

Worry, fear, anxiety, doubt, or resistance in the form of limiting beliefs, pollute and dilute your vibration.

Acknowledge them for what they are, but choose to push yourself into a direction of positive thinking.

Imagine yourself as capable and powerful, with a future that is in direct alignment with your desires.

Fill every cell with love, happiness, joy, peace, and let that light, bright energy radiate outward to attract what you want!

The more you amplify positive emotions, the higher and more powerful your manifestation will be!

  • Start the day with a positive affirmation.
  • Focus on the good things, however small.
  • Find humor in bad situations.
  • Turn failures into lessons.
  • Transform negative self-talk into positive self-talk.
  • Focus on the present.
  • Find positive friends, mentors and co-workers.

Visualize

Visualization is a useful technique that helps you reach your goals and live your dreams.

1.) It activates your creative subconscious which will start generating creative ideas to achieve your goal.

2.) It programs your brain to more readily perceive and recognize the resources you will need to achieve your dreams.

3.) It activates the law of attraction, thereby drawing into your life the people, resources, and circumstances you will need to achieve your goals.

4.) It builds your internal motivation to take the necessary actions to achieve your dreams.

Stay humble and grateful

In our daily lives, it can be all too easy to get brought down by the little details while overlooking the bigger picture. All too often, this can lead to discontentment, causing us to become unhappy with our lives as we forget to focus on what is most important. Charity giving is the perfect way to get back to our roots and ensure that humility remains a vital part of daily life. Being positive and staying thankful can be an incredibly rewarding philosophy – every day, we should always strive to be the very best that we can be. This may seem daunting, but reintroducing thankfulness into daily life needn’t be a difficult task.

Harness the power of gratitude and the blessing you have on a daily basis.

Thank yourself for all the hard work you’ve put in, while simultaneously thanking the universe for honoring this work and providing you with results.

Thank yourself for initiating the process, and find gratitude in every success and setback along the way. But do not allow your new-found success to go into your head.

Always acknowledge who you once were and where you came from.

And do what you can to help others realize as you have.

Be grateful for the opportunities you have and send gratitude forward into the future for that which you are about to receive.

Upgrade your beliefs

Success and happiness are all about mindset. What you think you become.

In order to upgrade your beliefs, you first need to know which ones are holding you backStart by listing some limiting beliefs as they come to your mind in a specific area. Think about that inner voice that keeps popping up during the day, especially when things don’t go the way you want. These could be statements like “I’m stupid / I’m not good enough / I’m a bad person / I will never manage”. Or it could be statements such as ” Life is hard”. As you write them on paper, more underlying beliefs will probably emerge, helping you to get deeper.

Here are the ways to have more gratitude in your daily life.

  • Become more aware of your mindsets

Accept that your thinking needs adjustment.

Start by increasing awareness of your emotional state. When you react or before making a decision, which lens are you using to see reality?

Are you adopting a perfectionist mindset? Or a me-me-me one? (and think that the world revolves around you).

Reflect on how your mindset affects your view. If your mindset is negative, how can you reframe it into a positive one?

  • Avoid seeing reality in binary terms

Most mindsets are deceiving. They force us to see the world in black and white terms.

Binary thinking creates a false dilemma. We act as if there are only two possible options when they are actually more.

Challenge your binary thinking. Avoid the tendency to split all the things into two categories: black and white, either-or, right or wrong.

Binary thinking is not always bad. Sometimes it can help. Sometimes it is necessary. But, in most cases, it’s just a shortcut — a form of generalization. Not everything fits into one of two categories.

  • Reflect on your beliefs

Our mindsets are deeply-ingrained in our beliefs. To change our mindset, we must first examine our belief-system.

What’s holding you back? Are your beliefs supporting you or limiting you? Identify the beliefs that are helpful and work with those that are not.

Religion and politics are perfect examples of this. There’s nothing wrong with your ideology. But, most people take it to an extreme. They reject anything or anyone that doesn’t agree with their beliefs.

  • Define your purpose in life

We all want to be part of something bigger than ourselves. What’s your life purpose? Find your ‘why.’

What does success mean to you? There’s a difference between achieving success and being successful. Achieving success is about reaching a specific destination. Being successful is a state of mind — it’s about appreciating the journey.

Create your own measure of success. What mindsets will help you get there? Select the lenses that will help you achieve your higher mission in life.

Finding your life purpose is not about the destination. It’s all about the journey.

  • Turn limiting mindsets into liberating ones.

Challenge your existing mindsets. Go back to the analysis you did in past.

What are the mindsets that are not helping you? Changing your mindsets is not easy. But it’s worth the effort.

We are creatures of habit. Our mindsets take a long time to develop. Upgrading them requires replacing a pattern with a new one.

Your mindset is a lens that filters your reality. Upgrade your mindset by turning limiting beliefs into liberating ones.

Become a conscious creator

Many of us wander aimlessly through life without any real intentions or goals for what we are doing or where we want to go. This comes from the social conditioning around us that comes from parents, friends, and society.

The opinions, beliefs, and concepts that we learn while we’re younger sets the foundation of our character and who we are before we become adults. We become fearful of what the world thinks about us which makes us question who we are and if we are good enough for others.

But first, we must learn to love ourselves. This is something I’ve learned on my journey of self-discovery.

When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all of your thoughts break their bonds: your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover yourself to be a greater person than you ever dreamed yourself to be.

Loneliness is a negative state, marked by a sense of isolation. One feels that something is missing. It is possible to be with people and still feel lonely—perhaps the most bitter form of loneliness.

Solitude is the state of being alone without being lonely. It is a positive and constructive state of engagement with oneself. Solitude is desirable, a state of being alone where you provide yourself wonderful and sufficient company. It’s important to spend time around people. You can improve your habits and learn new things when you’re surrounded by interesting people. Of course, much of life’s biggest joys stem from our relationships. But too much “people time” might also be a bad thing. Our digital devices often make us feel like we need to be connected 24/7. And all of the noise, activity, and hustle can wear you out and ironically can leave you feeling lonelier than ever. Solitude is an essential component to your healthy and well-being.

We come to this earth alone, and we depart apart. We are individuals. If we can observe our existence, we will recognize that although we live among others, we experience our life by ourselves in the sense that our inner world is ours. Nobody can live our lives except us. Of course, we are also connected with the whole world as we are a piece of the One Great puzzle of life, but at the same time, every single individual is in a sense alone or on his own.

Cultivating a sense of harmony in our separate experiences in the world can help us connect with ourselves and overcome the feeling of loneliness and develop solitude instead. Solitude, in this sense, is a profound spiritual truth of existence, and just by looking at the stars at night, we can understand that every single planet or star stands alone as a shining diamond between other shinning diamonds. Cultivate this feeling of being alone but unique among other unique Divine Beings, and this will help appreciate more your existence rather than make you feel lonely.

Sometimes, there are days in life when absolutely nothing seems to work. More often than not, there’s nothing you can do about it. At the same time, it may not always be your fault that these things are happening. Some people will treat you poorly not because you did something wrong, but simply because they have their own problems.

Whenever you’re having a bad day, accept that there are ups and downs to life. There will be days when life pushes you to the ground just as there will be days of great happiness. Try to understand that this is natural, that these days are entirely normal. If you manage to do this, you free yourself of unnecessarily blaming yourself for things you’re not responsible for.

Learning to ignore things is one of the great paths to inner peace.

There’s a lesson to be learned in everything that happens.

Everything that happens to you teaches you a lesson – in one way or the other. But most of us ignore these lessons. Everybody wants to forget what has happened. But no one takes the time to analyze the situation. They choose the first opt- as it is the most easiest way to move on in life. But it won’t help in the long run. Being in the same state of mind with which things went wrong is very difficult to find the solution.
However, if you actively seek the lessons you can learn from setbacks or hardship, you will be able to make use of these difficult times. It will further help you to let go of the anger about what happened, which will be replaced by a happier attitude.

Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you.